Blog Entry #10: Sister from other mother..

My bestfriend and sister by heart for almost 7 years. I’m so grateful to consider you as my sister, my hoe, my shoulder to cry on, and sometimes my mom lol. I may be older, but I’ve always felt that I could talk to you about most things, and that if I needed it, you would have some encouraging advice, or in the very least some non-judgmental support to offer.

A friend is so difficult to find. A friend is someone you can always count on in times of tough. A good friend is always there when you are struggling. A good friend is someone who doesn’t talk behind your back, listens to your nonstop dramas in life and gives you good advice.

I am here for you. I may not agree with every decision you make, as a sister, I will support you. I may not understand everything you are going through but I will always lend an open ear. Whenever you need a shoulder, my arms are wide open. I will wipe your tears and cry with you, I will comfort you.   

You show me that it was just a waste of time and energy getting mad, upset, angry or so irate that  I allowed myself to be controlled by emotions. I learned from watching you deal with people that being nice never fails.

I promise never to leave you alone, not because I’m being clingy, but because I’m already attached to your life.  Times get rough and I’m not fun to be around when that happens. People don’t like to be around when times like this came. But you stay, you stay even when things look like shit. You let me talk and cry and never make me feel guilty for needing you.

No matter how far we’ve come, how busy we’ve become or how much we’ve became matured, nothing can change the care and the affection that I have for you. I am thankful because I met you. Because life without you would’ve sucked. Love you baby girl! 

Blog Entry #9: Family is Everything.

 I can't imagine my life without my family by my side. They are very important to me. Without my family a big part of my life would be missing. In society, there is much requirement to be a best family, because the real family makes a good community and good society.Everyone wants the good family, where all family members understand better to each other for anything. Even at any problem happen with any family member. Family is a long lasting relationship that holds a bond with each other. There are many values that one has to learn to get the family bonding in the right manner. Bonding does not happen overnight, it forms with every second, every minute that you spend with your loved ones.

The understanding, the acceptance, the belonging and the security all enclosed together is how a family bond is formed. Not having a strong family base, may end up in troubles. The absence of a family is like vacuum, there is nothing that could feel it. Too be part of a happy family, one should always thank God for the blessings we have in  life, having a family who cares and loves us is the greatest blessing that any person could get in life. When we see broken families for reasons of their own, we should always remind ourselves how lucky we are to be a part of complete family that has been with us all through our lives.

Blog Entry #8: Lessons In Life..

I've think of the things that life taught me in my 17 years of living. And i want to share this to all that will read this blog. Maybe these things happened to you already. We can't go back to the beginning but we can start where we are and change the ending.  We can't go back to the time where we've done failures or wrong decisions but we can face the future with confidence that we will not do the wrong decisions that we've done on our past. Life gives us so many lessons to test our ability to face that problems and teach us lessons that can help us to be a better person. Life doesn't want us to give up easily in the problems, life wants us to be more patient, understanding and life wants us to look at the problems as challenges that will teach us a lot in life, not a struggle that will destroy ourselves.
Things I've learned in my life(so far):
1. If you love yourself, chances are others will love you also.
      It's all about self-love and it all starts with self love. If you don't love yourself, how could you 
      expect someone to love you? Love yourself and others will love you also.
2. If you don't believe in yourself, nobody will.
      "Don't expect others to see gold where you can only see dust" People will treat you based on what you think about yourself and how you behave and act in the world.
3. You are unique, not perfect.
       everyone is unique without any exception. We should stop striving to be perfect let's just accept
       who we are, God made us unique not perfect. 
4. Happiness has no price.
        I believe that happiness don't found in material things. So if you are seeking for a good life, you 
       should let go of your attachments in material things. Happiness can found in simple things such           as doing what you love.
5. Be Ambitious.
         Dreaming big is what I'm always doing. There's nothing you can't accomplish if you're willing
         to put work in it.
6. Build your dreams, not someone else's.
        I know some successful persons, but others are miserable. Yes, they achieve what others                     considered as success but they haven't done what they have really want to do. Maybe their 
        parents pushed them to do it but the point is they're not doing what they wanted to do.
7. Accept changes.
        It helps us grow, even when it hurts.
8. You can't be friends with everyone.
        Even though you want or try to be that social butterfly, you will always have people who
        don't like you.
9. Appreciate the little things.
       Always be appreciative, sometimes smaller acts speak louder words than you think 
       they do. Be in the moment and appreciate it.
10. Be kind, always.
       Do anything that proves, in your own little mind, that you are somehow superior to everyone
      elses around you.
11. Don't compare yourself or try to be someone else.
       There's always someone out there whose more beautiful, richer, has a perfect relationship,
       or has a flatter stomach or has fairer skin. Comparing yourself to others is a game that you'll               never win.
12. Don't be afraid of rejection.
        Rejection is a part of your life. "A door may slammed in your face now, but your 
       courageous efforts will be later rewarded with an open window"